you wage with your Self
simply means letting go
of the judgments
that you hold about your Self
and replace those judgments with
What is the war that you wage with your Self?
You judge yourself for who you are.
You judge yourself for what you’re not.
You disown those aspects of yourself
that you can’t tolerate about yourself.
You belittle and demean those qualities
about your Self of which you are ashamed.
What are the steps to ending the war
you wage with your Self?
1.) Claim those aspects of your Self that you are unwilling to embrace as
authentic parts of your Self,
2.) Validate and accept those parts of your Self
that you hold negative judgments about,
3.) Celebrate your qualities and characteristics that make you uniquely
who you are.
Your life can’t attain its richest
without your willingness
to openly and freely
love and be loved.